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送交者: wuzhiwuweiwudi[布衣] 于 2019-03-06 22:10 已读 8081 次 1 赞  
三天前看到她似乎在约会一个跟我类似背景的男人,突然感到非常嫉妒并且心痛,当夜有些失眠, 我知道自己是真的喜欢她了。 cool18.com

可是理智告诉我自己配不上她, 即使她愿意交往, 对她也太不公平。 我几近50, 离婚两年, 两儿子跟我。 她三十有四, 未婚。 我们在同一公司工作。 cool18.com

去年中的时候, 我们简单同事式交往过一阵子, 也曾谈诗论词几次,似乎有些融洽, 我向她表示过好感, 但一直没有涉及私人背景。 去年下半年的某个时候,她突然对我爱理不理, 我自知不般配, 也就顺坡下驴, 停止交往, 只在圣诞之前送她一盒高档巧克力, 并祝她来年好运, 遇到合适的人。  cool18.com

这次的心痛, 让我心情纠结。 心告诉我喜欢她, 大脑提醒我不要有非分之想。  cool18.com

我到底该如何应对? cool18.com

信件之一: cool18.com

Hi xxx, cool18.com

You did not respond to my recent chats and informal invitations, which concerns me that I might have offended you accidently. Or you might not be interested, or too busy to pay cool18.com

attention to it. No matter why, I need to explain and apologize. cool18.com

The reasons that I only had random chitchat with you in the past several months are the following concerns I have: cool18.com

 Generally speaking, nowadays, a man must be cautious while talking about more than business with female colleagues in office before they become friends. Sexual harassment could be a problem. cool18.com

 It is business hours during the day and you are always busy. Professionalism in mind hinders me from chatting more. cool18.com

 I have been thinking of inviting you for coffee after work for a while, but can’t persuade myself to take immediate action. I have given it up several times before speaking it out. From the limited times of talking with you, I realize you are an outstanding girl: independent, intellectual, hardworking and having pursuit. On cool18.com

the other hand, I am not as outstanding as you are anymore. I should not have any undeserved thoughts. cool18.com

 Affection (heart), logic (brain) and law (beyond) are the three sequential levels in my philosophy world. My heart tells me that I like you but my brain reminds me that you are too good for me. Like the Vulcans, I follow logic in reality. cool18.com

I apologize for the confusion I caused to you! cool18.com

This is my first time trying to express emotion in English. To avoid further confusion, I logically decide to translate this letter into Chinese. I believe your Chinese is better than cool18.com

my English. In case that discrepancy exists, the Chinese version shall prevail. cool18.com

Best wish, cool18.com

YYYY cool18.com

最近几次断续地跟你闲聊和邀约你都没有反应, 让我意识到我可能无意间冒犯了你, 或者你可能不感兴趣,或者你实在太忙,无暇顾及; 无论如何, 我需要解释并道歉。 cool18.com

过去数月来我之所以只是断续地跟你说话, 实在是有如下的顾虑: cool18.com

 一般而言,成为朋友之前,而今男女同事之间闲聊需谨慎, 担心触碰骚扰的红线。 cool18.com

 那是工作时间, 并且你一直很忙。从专业精神的角度讲, 我不该聊天, 不该打扰你。 cool18.com

 一直想约你工余出来喝点咖啡聊聊天, 可是一直鼓不起勇气, 几次欲说还休。从有限的谈话中, 我知道你是一个很优秀的女孩:独立,知性,勤奋,有追求; 而我已不再优秀,不该有非份之想。 cool18.com

 在我价值观世界里, 情理法是三个层次。 从感情上讲我喜欢你这样的女孩; 但理智提醒我不配成为你朋友。在情感和理智之间, 我像 Vulcans 那样服从理智。 cool18.com

我对此前给你造成的困扰和不便表示道歉! cool18.com

这是我第一次试图用英语表达情感, 所以还是决定翻译成中文, 以免更多的误解。 我相信你的中文比我英文好, 所以, 如有误解, 请以中文为准。 cool18.com

致, cool18.com

问候! cool18.com

Nov. 18, 2018 cool18.com

信件之二 cool18.com

Hi xxx, cool18.com

Separation of personal life from work life should NOT stop you from pursuing relationship with colleagues if there is a right one. There should not be so many layers of subjective obstructions set up by ourselves. Life is not in fact that long at all, silly Jane! cool18.com

癸巳除夕偶成 cool18.com

清 ▪ 黄景仁 cool18.com

千家笑语漏迟迟, cool18.com

忧患潜从物外知。 cool18.com

悄立市桥人不识, cool18.com

一星如月看多时。 cool18.com

That loneliness, you don’t want it; I don’t want it; nobody wants it! Do you need translation? cool18.com

A Poem Composed Accidentally in New Year Eve cool18.com

Qing Dynasty, Huang Jingren cool18.com

Already late in New Year’s Eve cool18.com

Laughing and happiness spread all over the streets cool18.com

Standing alone on the Burrard Street Bridge cool18.com

Cars passing by but no one I can reach cool18.com

Looking at the moon hanging on sky edge cool18.com

Between the stars and the moon I was ditched cool18.com

Nobody knows danger is near I guess cool18.com

Cold, lonely and worried that is what I was cool18.com

Regards, cool18.com

Silly YYY again!

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