回答: 纠结 由 wuzhiwuweiwudi 于 2019-03-06 22:10

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You did not respond to my recent chats and informal invitations, which concerns me that I might have offended you accidently. Or you might not be interested, or too busy to pay  cool18.com
attention to it. No matter why, I need to explain and apologize.  cool18.com
The reasons that I only had random chitchat with you in the past several months are the following concerns I have: cool18.com
 Generally speaking, nowadays, a man must be cautious while talking about more than business with female colleagues in office before they become friends. Sexual harassment could be a problem.  cool18.com
 It is business hours during the day and you are always busy. Professionalism in mind hinders me from chatting more.  cool18.com
 I have been thinking of inviting you for coffee after work for a while, but can’t persuade myself to take immediate action. I have given it up several times before speaking it out. From the limited times of talking with you, I realize you are an outstanding girl: independent, intellectual, hardworking and having pursuit. On  cool18.com
the other hand, I am not as outstanding as you are anymore. I should not have any undeserved thoughts.  cool18.com
 Affection (heart), logic (brain) and law (beyond) are the three sequential levels in my philosophy world. My heart tells me that I like you but my brain reminds me that you are too good for me. Like the Vulcans, I follow logic in reality. cool18.com
I apologize for the confusion I caused to you!  cool18.com
This is my first time trying to express emotion in English. To avoid further confusion, I logically decide to translate this letter into Chinese. I believe your Chinese is better than  cool18.com
my English. In case that discrepancy exists, the Chinese version shall prevail. cool18.com
Best wish,  cool18.com
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最近几次断续地跟你闲聊和邀约你都没有反应， 让我意识到我可能无意间冒犯了你， 或者你可能不感兴趣，或者你实在太忙，无暇顾及; 无论如何， 我需要解释并道歉。 cool18.com
过去数月来我之所以只是断续地跟你说话， 实在是有如下的顾虑： cool18.com
 一般而言，成为朋友之前，而今男女同事之间闲聊需谨慎， 担心触碰骚扰的红线。 cool18.com
 那是工作时间， 并且你一直很忙。从专业精神的角度讲， 我不该聊天， 不该打扰你。 cool18.com
 一直想约你工余出来喝点咖啡聊聊天， 可是一直鼓不起勇气， 几次欲说还休。从有限的谈话中， 我知道你是一个很优秀的女孩：独立，知性，勤奋，有追求; 而我已不再优秀，不该有非份之想。 cool18.com
 在我价值观世界里， 情理法是三个层次。 从感情上讲我喜欢你这样的女孩； 但理智提醒我不配成为你朋友。在情感和理智之间， 我像 Vulcans 那样服从理智。 cool18.com
我对此前给你造成的困扰和不便表示道歉！ cool18.com
这是我第一次试图用英语表达情感， 所以还是决定翻译成中文， 以免更多的误解。 我相信你的中文比我英文好， 所以， 如有误解， 请以中文为准。 cool18.com
致， cool18.com
问候! cool18.com
Nov. 18, 2018